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Hello friends, Anil Kumar Palashiya has once again brought in front of you another great emotional story. This story is a live story which belongs to a common family, today running a family in 21st century is a very difficult task, today the biggest problem in society is how a person manages his family. These things bother everyone. I have just brought a post about this. Which you will like very much.
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Friends, I am not a writer, I am just presenting what I feel in front of you, the purpose of writing this post is only that if a person falls on this post and he gets some motivation from it, a broken family is back together. If I go, my writing will be successful. The purpose of this post is not to hurt any family, I am only talking about what is family and what should be the family. Our motive If you live in a joint family, then what are the things you should keep in mind that so that your family becomes an example, this is our only aim for everyone.
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1 - family
Everyone has a different concept of what a family is and how it should be, everyone thinks differently, every person has a different definition, everyone thinks differently about the family, but everyone thinks about the family. There will be no such person in this world. Who does not think about his family, does not want to see his family happy. Everyone wants to see their family happy
But I have a question to all of you that what is a family, what is its definition
Let me say one thing, today's time is the time of modern era, due to this people have also become modern, today every person has a different concept about the family and all the people think differently.
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Our thinking - 1 - works on two aspects. Away from everyone, husband and wife and their children will live together in one place. This is the only thought a person keeps for my good. Just don't care about anyone else. This is the perception of everyone, I do not want to say this, but seeing the time today, it has to be said that today a person likes to be alone but why so. Is there only husband and wife in the family. And there are only children, apart from this there is no one else
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Our thinking -2- Somewhere even people who have such a mindset are found, but only 1 or 2 people out of 100 are found who tell the concept of family in such a way that - a family is one in which a joint family It happens where father-mother, brother-carrying, husband-wife, son-daughter, grandparents, all these together form a joint family, there are very few people who think like this.
Where has this thinking gone, why do not such people think now why do everyone like to stay away from their family, why do husband and wife consider a family only, what other members are there in it, are brothers and sisters, parents of our family? They do not come in the category, is they not our family, are we separate from them, are they taking away our money from us, or we do not want to feed them or do we think that we should do it simple then separate from our parents. Come on and with this thinking, we are keeping this thing here.
Why the family breaks down, why children consider their parents and brothers to be a burden, on this topic, we are making this post, it is hoped that when you come across this post, you should keep your family in your mind and read this post. Then the purpose of this post will be fulfilled and you will get the answer of your every question.
vital role ;- a friend of the family
- own role
- father's role.
- Mother's role.
- Husband's role
- role of wife
- brother role,
- son's role.
- own role
Let me say one thing, what has become modern today, people do not even like to believe in each other, then there is a lack of trust in all the people, but why is this happening, why is there a lack of trust in the people? It all depends on your own role, on whom you believe or not. Today people do not even believe in their wife child, just they feel all the time that someone is cheating on him, how do all these thoughts come?
It all depends on our mindset, as we think, so we make our thinking, it is all a matter of attitude, who will do as he thinks.
When a person does not believe in himself, there is a lack of faith in him, then he gradually starts to lose faith in others. You can try to believe, every relationship asks for trust, if not trust, then there is no relationship. If you want to strengthen your relationship, then you have to believe in the people living with you.
Never lie to someone who trusts you with your eyes closed. The trust will always be there.
If you lie, you will have to pay for it at some point.
So if you want to keep your role right, you want everyone to believe in you. Have your respect. So you have to improve your role.
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Believe in yourself.
When you believe in yourself, you will learn to believe in others too.
Always tell the truth.
Don't always try to prove yourself right.
Listen to others too. What do they expect from you?
Whatever role you were in. Give the best to that role.
Assess yourself whether what you are doing is right or wrong.
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If this quality is developed in you then you will never be proved wrong. Recognize your mistake. And improve them. If this improvement comes in you then you will prove your role right and become worthy of it. Let us try to recognize our mistake by not taking out the fault of others.
If you are in the role of father, then you will have the responsibility of the whole family. Now it is up to you whether you want to play your role or you get away from your duty. When you become someone's father. So before that you should also think that someone is your father too. You want to give all the happiness of the world to your children, whoever is the father, he wants to give the best to his children even if they are hungry. Means whether he is a poor father or a rich father always wants to see his children happy.
all in the family
Just if you want your children to take care of you, then you also have to take a responsibility that you should also take care of your parents. Because whatever you do, your children will follow it. They say that you will reap what you sow.
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Father is the word of a response, say a fair judge who never discriminates against his children, whether the son is good or bad, but give him a chance, don't scold him for his every mistake, give him a chance. To test whether it is improving or not. Give chance to son and daughter. All these qualities are the mark of a good father. Such is my father who gave opportunity to all three of us brothers, it is not that we did not make any mistake, we three of us brothers who did some mistake in our time, but my father gave opportunity to all three of us. If my father didn't give us a chance, we might not have been able to stand on our own feet. Today it is his only Sikh that there is unity among all three of us brothers and all three of us are with our family.
One thing is good in my father, he does not rush in decisions.
They do not discriminate between the three of us brothers.
He always teaches all three how to perform their duties.
They do not leave the house when we make a mistake, they give us a chance.
He himself is so responsive that seeing him, we also learn to answer.
Mother's role.
Mother
I don't have that much status to write something for mother It is only by looking at our face that our sorrow and pain are understood that what is the problem we have, it understands in a moment.
Mother - My mother is such that if she sees us, she understands all our sorrows, what is our problem, mother is like this, whether she is my mother or your mother is always like this, she is a gift of God who Seeing our eyes, we understand every pain and pain, that is why she is called mother.
Mother never discriminates and whatever she does, she may not be a mother, but it is not like that no one can take the place of a mother.
It is the duty of a mother to take a home, a family, on the right path, she gives the right direction to her children.
I have often seen many mothers who fight with their husbands for the betterment of their son.
Mother-in-law, if it is mother-in-law, whether it is a boy or a girl, then it is mother.
If the mother-in-law does not consider the daughter-in-law to be her daughter-in-law, then the house will always be peaceful. There will never be a fight.
Husband's role
Husband means a person who is a man in a family, he is known by whatever name he is known as beta Husband, Father, and if he wants, this person can make his family an example, or if he wants, he can make it hell. It's all on him.
Why this - When a girl comes as a bride, she does not know who is like, she slowly starts to know everyone, the way her husband behaves in the family, he also keeps the same behavior with her, now here if the boy wants Everything can be taken care of because the girls are sent to their homes by saying that the son considers that house as his home. He is your parents, now everything is the same, you don't do anything, whatever the role remains, it remains the role of the boy's [husband], now from this boys either live together with their parents or Then he separates with his wife. The wife does not say that you should separate, the husband himself runs separately. And we tell dosi bahu that my son was good, he changed after plain. What did the daughter-in-law come to snatch our son from us. Even though the son was already looking for separation.
This thinking is not mine but of the whole society, today everyone thinks that even if the boy makes a mistake, only the daughter-in-law is considered to be a dosi.
The husband should keep coordinating the family in the house.
He should keep in mind that not everyone can be kept happy so don't take immediate decisions.
Always give some time to Risto.
Every person has his own ego very dear
People say that when the wife comes, the most important thing is to create harmony between both the mother and the wife.
Do not let such an atmosphere be created so that both of them feel happy that mother says that after marriage, the son has become daughter-in-law, now listens to me.
Or if the wife does not say that even after marriage, my husband still listens to his mother.
According to my thinking, let the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, let both of them fulfill their relationship, never fall in between them. She herself will agree.
When will all these things be applicable when you want to live with your own family, in which mother, father, brother, sister, grandparents are all, then you have to establish coordination in the family, otherwise there is no need to get married and with parents. Separate no problem.
Wife's role
Just as the role of husband is important in the family, in the same way the role of daughter-in-law or wife is also important, if she wants, she can make the house a heaven and if she wants, she can make the same house hell, everything is in the hands of the same one. There is a member who is a link between the in-laws and the mother-in-law.
If you want, never let there be a fight between your husband and your family.
Just as she considers her family members as her own in her maternal home, in the same way, consider everyone in her in-laws' house as her own and never let the chance of a fight come.
Two things happen in the house, if you do not promote that thing too much, then the dispute stops to some extent.
Nowadays, after marriage, the house is away from the family, it should be our effort that we are with our family as much as possible.
role of brother
brother younger
Bhai Bhai is such a word that on hearing it, it seems as if there is no need for a friend if he is with you, he is such a prince who knows and understands everything about you, although it is often seen That two brothers are never formed at all in today's time, whether it is before marriage or after marriage, they always fight, but their relationship is very unbreakable, brother whether you are younger or elder, always respect him. If you do this, even if your brother does not understand you, but if you listen to him and understand, then he will also obey you, I tell a good example when a girl is married and if she has a brother or sister. So we should learn from that girl that how much she loves her siblings, whether her brother is elder or younger, she always thinks about her and we are the only ones who start fighting with our brothers over small things. If we look at it, just imagine how affectionate your wife is for your years and what we do on the contrary, we only care about small things. You start fighting with your brothers, on the other hand, friends, we love them, but the one who has been with you since your childhood, you feel the worst and you start fighting with him sometimes in the name of property and sometimes in the name of your rights. Why does this happen why can't two brothers ever live without fighting?
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Friends, like I have already told you, I am not a writer, so what I have seen, felt and learned in my life is the same thing that whatever time you live in this world, always support the truth if you do so. If you do, then you will never have to face embarrassment in front of anyone, yes it is definitely that the truth spoken by you can hurt many hearts but one truth can also improve many lives.
It has often been seen that whoever people are, I or you, we respect the outsiders a lot, but when it comes to the house, they start quarreling with them, why did he say this, why did he say this, just on this matter They sit annoyed with their family members, they do not understand why people often do such things, if they explain to them, then it is useless and if others give a wrong opinion, then they like it,
We trust the outsiders more than the people of the house, tell them about our heart, the people of the house feel bad at that time but the same friends enjoy you after some time and make you laugh.
Today's time is the time of intelligent people, if you tell them right, they feel bad, but do not break contact with them and keep talking.
We often think that when my son grows up, he will earn a lot of money for me, he will make us very happy, but when we marry him, the same boy leaves his parents one day and why does this happen? Couldn't go before marriage, now it comes to you, maybe his wife has taught him, now we should think that what we expect from our children today, your parents must have expected the same from you, why brother, are you someone? If you do not have children, then someone must have raised you, have you given food to your parents, have taken care of them, if you have done the curry, then your children will also do it and if you have not, then they will also learn from you and then the rituals Be it that even our parents did not give food to their parents, then why should we give food?
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